I know she is still a WW but I have seen her chasing me more. She seemed genuine on the phone saying she still cares for me...but I am trying not to believe her because I know words are words. But behaviorally, going to IC again is a solid step. Many steps for her to still make, but she did make a step.
LH already said it. But I will enforce. She is not chasing you. My W told me she still loves me (and just like you I heard she ment it) one month before confessing she is "seeing" OM. She is most likely going to IC to handle her own stress and feelings. Do not see it as a "solid step" towards you. Very dangerous waters!
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021
