Nice to see kitty is on the mend. She’ll soon be running around the place again.
I am glad you spoke directly to your landlord about the rent thing and H. Smart to let her know your intent not to move, regardless of H.
You cannot trust H to do what you expect. Stuff like rent, and other things that are important and need an adult involved - do them yourself. Then just inform H.
I get it, joint accounts and financial involvements make it harder to navigate. Going forward try to just let H know what is going on and what you are doing about it. Something like, I got an email from landlord and our rent is increasing. I am going to talk to her and let her know that’s fine. (or ask if we can increase it by half, or whatever).
Did you get the auto bill figured out?
Being locked down is tough and anxiety does rise - especially with a MLCer in the same house. Getting out for a change of scenery is a good idea. Like job said, even if it’s just for a cup of coffee from the drive thru.
Stay strong. You’re doing well.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
