That is exactly what I meant. Slowly sharing with him as he is asking. Planting the seed about the Lord in order that he can start asking questions and start searching.
Taking it one step at a time leading him because he isn't ready for everything to be explained to him and he does have to find his own answers, but if he is going to ask questions, answer his questions with what the Lord tells you. You already have been spoken to several different times by the Lord.
So he will lead you as to how your conversation will go. Right now his concentration does have to be on him and how to fix himself and you can't give him those answers, but you can give him things to think about as he is searching. Just like when you come to the board and people will give you suggestions or they will ask you questions that will get your mind thinking.
You want to keep the pressure off, but you also want to help him find the answers that he is looking for without giving him the answers. Letting him find them on his own if you know what I mean.
It is a hard thing to get through. Figuring out when to speak and when not to speak. What to say and what not to say, but the Lord will give you all of that as the time is needed. He will let you know when you can talk about certain things and when you can't. Just like he told you that one night not to say anything about a remark that he had made. He has done that to me several times. There were times when I thought I had the right to say something about something that had happened and the Lord said not now he isn't ready.