I know she is still a WW but I have seen her chasing me more. She seemed genuine on the phone saying she still cares for me...but I am trying not to believe her because I know words are words. But behaviorally, going to IC again is a solid step. Many steps for her to still make, but she did make a step.
Any feedback or insight? Thanks again, everyone.
K,
You’re a smart guy but here is where you get tripped up. She saying she still cares about you is the same as her saying I love you but I’m not in love with you. What you call chasing is temp checking and cake eating. All apart of the WW script.
Lastly you view IC as a step in the right direction. How will you feel when her IC validates her feelings that she’s not happy being married to you and advises her that to be happy that divorce is the best option? Will you consider that a step in the right direction?
Look I know your looking for hope and you should have hope but right now I’m afraid nothing has changed and will change for a really long time.
