Hi Deb, I see everything, too bad our H's are soo blind at this point.
Quote: Pay no attention to your H's whinning; MLC! I think your H knows exactly what he may be loosing. He is now going through the fight of what he really wants. That is why right now it is very important for you to listen, don't tell him what choice to make. He will have to make this choice on his own. I think he wants you to make the choices for him, don't you dare! Just go on about your business. Please go back and read the stages in MLC! I think he is at the one where it says, it is very important to give him space. Can't remember which one it is!
Love the "just go about your business" as that is what I've been doing with a megadose of detachment that has recently been added..I mean TOTAL detachment where nothing he does now makes me react, gets me anxious, gets me nervous, think "oh no he's going to leave" because if that's what he wants to do I won't beg and plead. The Lord has made me a person of Him and His desires.
