Your friend said some amazing things and it sounds like you understand what you need to do
If you practice letting go...you will get empowered you come first and yes you need 2 hands to properly swim
you cant save him...only he can you cant save this relationship alone
and we all have made mistakes with trying to make our Mlcer aware
I know I did and I really believed at that time maybe he didnt know he could come home... but he ignored all my words, all my changes and hard work and continued down his own path
eventually leading himself after many years to total destruction and misery
I saved me I saved my kids you can as well
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow