Quote: Lately he has chosen to participate more often than not. I think your H does too, although usually at the last minute after some hemming and hawing.
For the most part I've been making my own plans, I always have things to do, places to go.
This weekend:
Graduation party Saturday afternoon for H's nephew with my sons Scrapbook project for my niece who is graduating in a few weeks at my friend L's house Friday night or Sunday night depending on the weather get together with gf's at my house...fake fire pit buy flowers/plant flowers mom's birthday--trying to talk Sis into having a get together at her house visit my friend P while I'm in H's hometown for his nephew's graduation party S4 wants to miniature golf again.. shopping Maybe just sit and read enjoy my wonderful life
I love my life, it H wants to participate that's up to him, I'm not going to live MY life around H's plans.
My H's first response to any invitation is "I'm not going" but in the end usually shows up..so this is nothing new and if he doesn't go fine with me. I really don't have a problem just going and if people ask I tell them. H's family knows how H is and doesn't usually even ask.
Graduation party Saturday afternoon for H's nephew with my sons
