Thanks for checking in on me. Things have been crazy with work and then all this quarantine business hit and things have been even crazier.
It all came to a head yesterday when he told me he found a place and asked again "You didn't think I changed my mind do you?" like he asks every month. He's able to do sweat equity in order to forgo first and last month's rent and asked to stay here until that happens. I told him I don't know. After thinking about it though, it will give me a bit more time to save up a better nest egg for when he's gone so hopefully I don't have to sell the house.
I think he feels guilty because this morning he offered to make me breakfast, cleared off my car, asked if I needed anything from the store etc
Good.
We still haven't told the kids. I still keep wanting to wake up from this. I didn't actually think he would get a place.
Obviously it's been impossible to get out and have a life, but I've been spending more time doing my hobbies in the house and taking time for me. His laundry is all piled up because I haven't done it in months.
