I think the XW enjoys her alone time without the girls and she has her BF to take care of her primal needs. Outside of her financial issues she has the perfect set up.
The Doc is locked in on my and has pulled no punches in letting me in know that I am her chosen one. I am in no rush and this could take years to happen. We HHH pretty well and neither one of us put pressure on each other. She will mention something every now and then but for my part her life needs to be a little less chaotic and she needs to be more secure with her practice. I think the entire time we have been dating I have not seen her in a normal state of just living and enjoying life.