One thing about our two sitches are the same is; my H's OW also "buys" him things. This is NOT my H's LL! He hated when people did that! Now he is excepting gifts from a woman who he is having an affair with. My only guess is it is MLC that makes them change the way they think!
Quote: Is this what the bible means when it says "you reap what you sow" or how "what goes around comes around."
You and I both agree with this! My H is finding out what it is like to not have his family close! I think he is missing it! Grabbing whatever he can to get his D's to pay him attention. I think H may be realizes just how much he is going to loose! My H's family is important to him.
Pay no attention to your H's whinning; MLC! I think your H knows exactly what he may be loosing. He is now going through the fight of what he really wants. That is why right now it is very important for you to listen, don't tell him what choice to make. He will have to make this choice on his own. I think he wants you to make the choices for him, don't you dare! Just go on about your business. Please go back and read the stages in MLC! I think he is at the one where it says, it is very important to give him space. Can't remember which one it is!
I have a feeling something is just right around the corner for you, and I think you are going to be surprised when your H comes out of the tunnel a better person!
