I've just read your threads all the way beack to "He Ran Again" which was the farthest back I found. Your thread was recommended to me in Newcomers because my husband is an alcoholic.
Quote: So now H thinks I just want him to watch S..I can't win for losing or whatever that saying is
I just wanted to comment on that. He probably doesn't really think this, but it's his excuse for the moment. Remember, anything to make you the bad guy and himself the martyr, put upon and misunderstood.
If it wasn't that, he'd find something else to take offense at.
Keep hanging in there. I'll keep reading your thread, with interest.