So when he asks you again what you are doing this weekend, say " I don't know - I thought S4 and I would do (1) or (2) or (3) or (4) or (5). It will depend on my mood at the moment!"
LOL!
He is just wallowing in his own muck isn't he?
You are amazing in how you handle it all. I know how hard it is with kid(s) involved.
Then the question, do you just keep on making plans for yourself and not include them, mention your plans to them and extend an invitation (only to be rejected or accepted at last minute) or what?!?!??!
I don't know about you, but my three kids don't want to sit around and wait to see what H wants to do. So I make the plans and let him know so he can decide if he wants to participate.
Lately he has chosen to participate more often than not. I think your H does too, although usually at the last minute after some hemming and hawing.
Check out my update - the man is acting strange again...
In the meantime, get out and golf in between storms will you?!?!? Or are all of the courses still under water?
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