Hey Dab35, glad to hear you're finding detachment. Yes, that stage where most of the day I don't think about her but when romantic films come up I do is exactly where I was a month ago. Good stuff.

Detailing, huh? What aspect inspires you? I struggle just to keep my home and car not embarrassing! For me hiking is meditative--everything else falls away when you focus on strength, endurance, or nature.