H just called, boy he sounds rough or he has the same cold that I have, that our S has..I'm beat and I'm getting a hard time from coworker about my "smoker's cough" I don't smoke. Asked him how he was.
H sounded okay, tired maybe. Said does it matter if I sleep in the basement at our house or at OW's.
Then "I watched S last night, took him on a bike ride, fed him..that's all you want me for." I said oh I don't know I think I do a pretty good job of taking care of S myself...so maybe I should have validated him by saying you do such a great job with our S, but I didn't. I have dinner plans tonight with some gf's and so I will be out again. This is not normal for me, it just worked out that I have two dinners in a row with friends. So now H thinks I just want him to watch S..I can't win for losing or whatever that saying is. Then he said he was planning on picking up S and did I think he'd forget, that I don't have to remind him. Well he does forget and for my own sanity I like to confirm with him and with anybody, don't want S sitting at daycare.
He asked about the message that I had left and what was I saying, making it sound like he didn't understand it and I know very well that he did understand it. I just said I have a hard time getting the right words out.
I then said I'd let him get back to work, good bye...have a good day and hung up...H didn't say a word.
