No way she can bring the OM to your house! And cancel your vacation if it was with her. My W had me rent a $3000 house on the beach 2 weeks before BD. I have already reached out t the owners and they said if Corona continues into May they will allow me to cancel and get my money back. I would gladly give away the $3000 if my W ever thought she could bring the OM. Otherwise, my D and I will have a nice time without her.
I hope one day I can have the strength to file. Just not there after 2 months. I still am holding out hope she will change and want to work on herself to be able to come back. But I am finally starting to believe I can't control that so dont worry about it. I will not be an ingredient to her A.
I have learned a lot from your sitch, Mumin. Continue to be strong so I can learn that from you too.