Can I ask a question: There are a few females that I have spoken to and they are obviously interested in me. They seem nice and I am questioning of meeting one of them to take the dogs for a walk (social distancing). What are your thoughts on dating or seeing what else is out there? I think it would help me move forward. They are aware of my separation but not the affair. Although it's not what people would want to hear, I do want my W back but am trying to move forward because I become more and more skeptical that we would ever get back together in a long-lasting relationship.
Personally - WAY TOO SOON - with all due respect you are still broken. Meeting a new lady now is a car crash. You are still thinking with emotion and your rational isnt bang on. You will ignore any and all red flags and boom - car crash.
I waited 6 months - the women will still be there in 6 months and your head will be in a better place. Its also not fair on the women either - your heads in the wrong place and you or them will get hurt..
Theres no rush - WORK ON YOU..
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
