Mumin, first know I also follow your thread and I am wishing you the best.
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After speaking to IC and others I have heard several examples where the child chooses to live ONLY with the "rock-parent".
From what I have been told in my state this can't happen until my D is 16 before they allow her to decide for herself. Obviously, if there is abuse, W drinking too much, etc. that would change. My W loves her D. Shows her that love and she has gotten much better over the last year in spending time with her. But then she would lie to her face to go out with the OM, so I don't know.
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Quote Since I said that 24 hours ago she has sent me pics of our D, a produced video of my D with my W trying to coax her o say she loves me on video, and numerous texts.
This is crazy! Good on you for not engaging! Stay strong!
I did stay strong. And it continued last night. After texting, "how are you guys?" and then "??????", and then "just text me back and tell me you guys are alright." I ignored all of them knowing that she was trying to engage me in convo. She had to wait until 8pm to talk to our D. When my W FaceTiemd with my D, my W stared saying, I need to talk to your father. I was in the other room (listening a little) and I said not hats okay. She insisted and my D brought over the phone and she said, W: you can't text me back and tell me you guys are alright? H: You know what I said yesterday. W: I get to know if my D was alright (the ironic thing was she asked if WE are alright) H: I asked you yesterday to respect my wishes and you don't get 24/7 access to us anymore. W: F you. and hung up.
Within 30 seconds the texts came. "F you." And then, "I am f-ing done" and then "you literally hold our D against me and I would NEVER do that to you." I responded with one text "If there is ever an emergency or something you need to know you will be the first one to know."
