Affair Fog-LRT 3

[Mumin]

Hi KT. Thanks for your encouraging post on my thread!

As your daughter gets older she will know who the Rock is

This!
After speaking to IC and others I have heard several examples where the child chooses to live ONLY with the "rock-parent". This is something that might happen to both of us. In fact if W doesnt get a grip of things I will introduce these thoughts to my D5 when she is maybe 8-9 (This is in 2-3 years). When she is older still this will be completely up to my daughters in my opinion.
But if W gets her [censored] together it wont be something that I bring up or even encourage. I'd prefer my kids have two stable and "healthy" parents to look back at.

But if she really goes back to IC, and I mean for a while, then why wouldn't I want that?

Point is she should go for HER and she nees to decide this. Not because you suggested/said it.

Since I said that 24 hours ago she has sent me pics of our D, a produced video of my D with my W trying to coax her o say she loves me on video, and numerous texts.

This is crazy! Good on you for not engaging! Stay strong!

After reading over a synopsis

Where did you find the synopsis?

If she gets out of hand and sends numerous texts and calls 20+ times (like last week), what do I say to make her stop?

Like LH said. Just ignore! Laugh at her in your mind!
Like I said earlier, use airplane mode AND/OR shut of notifications if it get out of hand or you get emotional.