Well, I was thinking of not posting today. Last night was more of the same from H so I'm sure everyone is getting tired of it or maybe it's just me.
The famous "I'm going to OW's tonight" line was spoken!! I said "well go then" and left it at that. It was the usual button pushing night.
I notice there is anger in my H, it's more directed at our S right now. I don't let H get to me like I used to, he just can't get a rise out of me, but of course litte guy is NOT afraid of his dad. The things S does are typical boy things, but H's temper rises.
H is also good about making sure I do things, actually hounds me to the point where I just say "yes I did that" to get him off my back. It's things that he could actually do himself. We have a shared well and our neighbors aren't very prompt in paying us for electric. So it's on me to get them the notice and every day he asks "did you do it yet" and last night he asked, again..and I said "yep" the thing is I usually laugh or something and give myself away. To me it's not that important, something that has to be done instantly. I procrastinate a lot, but I do get things done in my own time. AND, everything works out in the end.
Tonight I'm going to a wedding show for a 60 year old woman who has been leaving with her fiance for 20+ years. She's not a close friend, but in a group of woman I get to gether with three or four times a year. Our little group was formed years ago when we all worked together, some were added later on, but we still keep in touch and gather. We have a hoot of a time when we gather. The topics range from our president, religion all the way to bar style humor, keeping in mind some of these woman are highly educated..which when I think about it...doesn't really matter does it? They are all very down to earth people.
The invitation to the shower very specifically states that the "usual" behavior would not be tolerated. The poor woman who's hosting thinks she has control over this...yeah right...we laugh till we cry.
