I will give you my opinion. This site is called Divorce Busting which is obviously great marketing and the goal for people here. The two problems I feel newbies run into are one they are to emotionally attached to implement DB strategies and number two they don’t understand the timeline for their situation to turn around. Pursuit, weakness, plactating and relationship talks never work but newbies do it all the time. This actually hurts their situation and pushes the WW further away. Timelines are typically a minimum 2-5 years for WW to work through their issues.
You have a WW who is openly in another relationship with an OM and is unwilling to end it. This is MY OPINION and only MY OPINION that shows total disrespect and you have only one option. Down the road if she gets her $hit together you can think about a recon.
It all comes down to your values and what you are willing to tolerate. As Sandi always says “for a woman to love a man she must respect him first”.
