Some will take up w/someone and then, there are those who do the MLC trip solo. It all depends upon the person, their coping skills and what they experienced as children. However, I would venture to say that there is someone on her radar and you just aren't aware of it. It could be an emotional affair versus a physical one...no matter...because you are going to continue to focus on you and your children. You are going to allow her to travel her own path and once she's reached the end of the path, she will need to face those demons and decide whether to remain a long time MLCer or become a mature, more settled woman.
Stay the course, focus on you and your children. You've got this!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
