I see what you are saying but my W did apologize to my mother for the pain she has caused and said how sorry she was for the pain she has caused me. She said she realizes that isn't going to do much but she is incredibly sorry. Knowing my W, I do give her credit for that. I realize this isn't R with me, but it is something.
These are just words though... Again you are looking for the best outcome / WW in the best light when the reality is she is still WW.
If you read about 1/2 stories on here there is always a point where the WW starts to make an effort etc. There is a motive, or maybe for a brief second they start to realise on what they are giving up.. BUT they are still wayward and unless your WW puts some serious effort into changing ( ive seen none ) you are back to square 1...
Just read back through your posts.. There are at least a couple of occasions ( if not more ) where you have frustrated WW and she has shown her true colours.. Empty words to your mother dont really carry a lot of weight in reconciling.. Again, your mindset is "but she" - you are trying to justify her words as progress - believe nothing they say !
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
