Hi Rosy, I’ve been following along worth your sitch, can’t remember if I’ve commented before or not.

I so, so relate to your recent post. I just texted my best friend about this today, because my H does the same thing. At this point it makes me furious. Just this afternoon when he picked up D4 he was all “how are you? Are you ok?” And rubs my shoulder. I want to SCREAM. Just as you said, “YOU KNOW WHATS WRONG!!!!” And like KitKat said, if I were to actually stare the truth, well he wouldn’t want to hear that.
It’s selfish behavior and it’s infuriating.
All I can say is every time I’ve bitten at that bait to share emotionally, it’s bitten me right back. Stay strong!