OMG, you're friend had her first baby at 43! That is scarey. I'm in the "grandma" mode right now. I became a grandma last year and now my D is expecting another this year! I think it will me another boy! I had all girls! Now I'll probably will get all grandsons. As long as they are healthy is what we always said...
Stop assuming Cathy! It does you no good. Pray instead!
Not brave, I just wasn't ready till then and getting married at the age of 37 didn't help either. I'm a late bloomer. In my 20's I wasn't interested in marriage at all. I was ready to have a child at 40, did pretty much all I wanted to do and decided I was going to live to be 100 anyways, why not have a child. He keeps me young!
Deb I had my S at 41! Before I had him I was so in too myself so focussed on me, my age, blah, blah...now I'm too busy!!
I know I shouldn't assume anything just had to get it out of me and "say" it "post" it so I could move past it. If I told any of my 3D friends they'd flip.
My A and I were talking yesterday trying to figure out why D changed everything so drastically and I said well no matter what we think we are assuming and have no actual idea.
She said that is right and she really thought even if he was asked and he would answer, that he probably didn't really know the answer either.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Me too!! I'm 56 and am in the best shape I've ever been in! That's the only good thing that's come out of this mess so far .
Hey Cathy, it seems you like the one-arm bandits. Is there any machine in particular that you like to play since I'll be in Vegas in 48 hours -- yea!!! It sure has been a long time coming.
Mary
"God, help me keep my head up, my heart open, and know I'll always be guided along the path."