Wooba, I love the list of things that you use to help recentre yourself. I’ve discovered only recently , now that H has moved out and I’ve got space around me, that I am free to position myself where I choose. I like the concept of putting myself in the centre and having those pointers that you have identified.
You are being incredibly strong with what you have to deal with.
M:49 H:49 T:20 M:18 D:16 D:14
EA: Feb 2019-May 2020 Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020 H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020 EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020 Recon #2: since Nov 2020