Wooba, I love the list of things that you use to help recentre yourself. I’ve discovered only recently , now that H has moved out and I’ve got space around me, that I am free to position myself where I choose. I like the concept of putting myself in the centre and having those pointers that you have identified.

You are being incredibly strong with what you have to deal with.


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020