I've told my best friends back in the U.S about my sitch, but even then I don't feel like updating constantly. I think no matter who it is in IRL, it is pretty much impossible for ppl to understand the situation unless they've been through something similar themselves. So yeah, I def do not want the pity party nor do I want people to start asking questions/giving me suggestions.
Meanwhile it is just easier to stay sane when I am the only who knows about it.
