Originally Posted by kto626


You're right. Time to grow my hair long I guess. I just have to figure out a way to tell her I don;t want her to come cut my hair. I guess when she asks, "what time?" I will just say I have decided not to cut my hair right now. That good?



Handle the best way you see fit, but stick with it...

That said, i'm a massive fan of self improvement.. so once lock down ends, get out and sort your hair, your clothes and some nice aftershave.. if you havent already.

Originally Posted by kto626

Admittedly, this may be a wake-up call for my W to know I am serious.


Wrong mind process - don't think of this as a wakeup call - you do this because you either want to, or because you are trying to protect your finances.. not as a wakeup - You do it for you - and you do it when you plan on sticking to it.. Ive been here 12 months and i dont think you should file yet - you arent strong enough and will fold at the first sign your WW wants you.

I can see this panning out like this - If your WW is familiar with this state law, she will come begging for you back.. No remorse or real regret... 5 years passes and it starts again - only this time you lose that 5 year divorce rule.


Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.