You're right. Time to grow my hair long I guess. I just have to figure out a way to tell her I don;t want her to come cut my hair. I guess when she asks, "what time?" I will just say I have decided not to cut my hair right now. That good?
I have another question after speaking to a friend who went through D. In the state I live, marriage is considered long term 5 years and beyond, therefore, allowing my W to more finances and rights. We have been married for 4.5 years. My friend said if this drags on, and the courts remain closed, then I should file for legal separation (don't need the courts for this). In this state it basically it is notarized document timestamp when the separation occurred, child custody and such. No finances or assets can be resolved here but I thought this would prevent me from going beyond 5 years. Admittedly, this may be a wake-up call for my W to know I am serious. So yes, it is a two-fold motive but I do not want to give up more finances because I can't even file for D (if I even wanted to).
I bought our house before we were married, paid every cent from my own checking account, but if we go beyond 5 years, she qualifies for alimony and more financial assets regardless of her paying NOTHING since we married, which I think is ridiculous.
