point being she has been gone over 12 months, i dont have verbal convesations with her and anything non child related is ignored.
That is what my W is always doing. "Can you do this for our D? How is our D doing? Can you tell her I love her? Do you want me to get groceries for her? Can I drop her off her scooter/toys for her to use?" etc. etc. etc.
That how she starts every text convo, usually first thing in the morning but it can come at any time during the day. Then she will ask "how are you? Do you need help with your work schedule? Do you want me to work from the house (our shared house)?" These comments I am trying to ignore or state that I don't want her to. How else should I respond?
Lastly, she did ask if I needed a haircut because my hair is getting so long with businesses being closed. I am debating it. I know you would say no but she has all of the clippers, equipment, etc. I am thinking to let her do it then ask her to leave. I am not seeing any other ppl so no one else can do it and I beginning online teaching and have numerous meetings with my supervisor/bosses and I don't want to look like a scrub. I know you all would say no but what other choice do I have? I am not shaving my head if that is what you are thinking...lol. These are different times. Normally I would just get a haircut somewhere but I can't do that
