Originally Posted by kto626

I do feel like she is beginning to turn but I don't know if she is ending contact wit the OM. Her actions are seeming like she is but I have no idea. So I will continue to detach, work on myself, and try to focus on the present.



She isnt beginning to turn - Typical WW behaviour. In the current climate her options are limited and she is keeping you interested as a failover option. Very ironically, my WW has never been so nice over the limited contact we have had over the past week.. The truth came out on Sunday when i found out from my daughter that WWs sister and mum had given her a roasting for still seeing the OM while we were in lockdown. On Sunday i receive a random message from WW asking me to assist in any DIY / technology issues etc while in lockdown because she has nobody else to ask. Of course she put the guilt trip on it "being for the children" - Needless to say i ignored - to which i then got abuse later...( shows true colours as i didnt come running) - point being she has been gone over 12 months, i dont have verbal convesations with her and anything non child related is ignored.. Yet 12 months later she still expects my assistance.. And their true colours show when they don't get their way - They WILL take take take IF YOU allow it.

Originally Posted by kto626

And MrBrside, I know you think I am doing things against the board's advice, but I haven't. Just walk me away from the edge is all...


You have complete control of you ! YOU... So start by not even getting close to the edge. Be the guy in the sports car zooming down the country lane with the wind blowing through your hair. YOU are allowing yourself to get to the edge. Dont even start to walk that mountain - keep firm feet way down at the bottom - there is then zero risk of getting close to the top.
Get a chinup bar for a door frame ( �15 ) or set yourself a pressup challange - 100 a day - NO exceptions or excuses.
Start today. By the end of April thats 3100 pressups minimum.. You will feel better.. And if you feel like you are about to walk up that cliff, do another 100.

You are the only one who can stop yourself getting to the edge.

Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..

Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.