Hi Everyone. Hope you are all safe and practicing social distancing. I fear in Canada and the USA, we will hit a very large amount of cases and a high death rate. Too many people moving around still and not keeping a distance. Canada is a week behind the US. People are still not taking this as serious as it is. My business is hazmat and infection control. This is a bad one.

My girls are respecting the rules of no going out and no visitors. My girlfriend and her son will not come back to my house until they stay in for 14 days. If all goes as planned she and her son can come over saturday to stay . If she needs to go back to work then she goes back home. I know it's not easy but it's a must.

On a MLC side. My XW is writing me daily since the 23rd of March. tells me she's worried for the girls then in the same sentence says she trusts me to protect them and they are in good hands. She even wrote to them , telling them she loves them and she is missing them. She wished she was home with us all.

The girls told me that last one. With us all. Now i know in times of fear some people reflect on their life and choices the have made. I feel this is all that is.

My D19 whos studying psychology said her mother is for sure hurting . She see's that family is the most important thing and she doesn't have it anymore. Poor her she said. They chose not to answer.

me however. I did answer her concerns. I reassured her that they are safe and staying in. That if she needs to talk I am here to listen.

that is all I can do. If this is the push to get her to do more attempts to connect to the girls than so be it. A blessing out of a scary time.

Today is the first day she didn't write. I won't reach out first. No point . This is her time not mine.

stay safe everyone. Protect your famillies. things will settle down in a 6-8 weeks and we will celebrate with the world.


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015