OMG, you're friend had her first baby at 43! That is scarey. I'm in the "grandma" mode right now. I became a grandma last year and now my D is expecting another this year! I think it will me another boy! I had all girls! Now I'll probably will get all grandsons. As long as they are healthy is what we always said...
Stop assuming Cathy! It does you no good. Pray instead!