Oh nooooo Cardinal you are really getting slammed right now. I wish I could hug you for real. I’m so sorry to hear about your cat...Do you have a close friend or family member you could lean on and not rely on any emotion from H? You don’t need this extra stress at such an awful time. I’m thinking of you and hope things go ok on Wed. I’ll stay online for a bit if you just wanna chat back and forth ..... (((Cardinal)))