Thanks, neffer and MrBrside. I do follow the advice but I find myself coming on here when I feel myself walking to the edge of despair (aka contacting her). I am getting better, but I am looking for a quick reminder of what I need to be doing.
I do feel like she is beginning to turn but I don't know if she is ending contact wit the OM. Her actions are seeming like she is but I have no idea. So I will continue to detach, work on myself, and try to focus on the present.
And MrBrside, I know you think I am doing things against the board's advice, but I haven't. Just walk me away from the edge is all...
