Can you take a walk? Can you take the car and drive around for a while just to have a change of scenery? Being cooped up w/an irrational man/child will absolutely drive you nuts. You need to have an outlet...even if it's going to a drive thru and getting a cup of coffee.
Do not call your mutual friend. If she's still hanging out w/him, she may tell him about the conversation. It's best to continue posting here to vent and talk to us.
They do like to get sympathy from others because they want people to think that they are the victims. Eventually people will put two and two together and come to realize he's off the wall, but it's going to take some time for that to happen. We, the rational people, know that if you want a divorce, you think about it, do the research and do the hard work to get it completed. MLCers are off the wall and bounce around so much because their brains are fried or should I say that all the wiring is knotted up and short circuiting.
Your h is trying to control the money situation and by crying to the landlord, she may have felt bad about the entire situation, but you can follow up and speak to her about your staying there regardless if looney tune does.
Find a way to get out of the place for a bit. You will feel so much better getting out and getting some fresh air.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
