. There are times when I just want to tell all my friends IRL about all this to get it off my chest, but I still don’t think it’s the right time yet. When I think about it I don’t feel ashamed like I used to a little, mainly just “ugh I wouldn’t want to deal with telling the story 10 times or answering a bunch of questions about my M”. But sometimes it does get a bit annoying when friends ask me innocent Qs about H and small talk involving H.....I don’t like to pretend everything is fine but I do still. Anyways.....so it is definitely nice to come here to talk and get feedback. My virtual people.
Ugh; I feel the same way. Sometimes I just want to give more friends a heads up but don’t want the pity party. It is annoying when they think everything is normal with the M and try to plans things in advance, ask questions, yet you’re in the mindset of taking things day by day and not sure how your future will look. When they’re complaining about their H not taking out the trash often enough and you’re worried about your H breaking up your family and changing your kid’s life. So frustrating.
I’ve been following along with your story and just wanted to say I think you’re doing an excellent job and handling things with a lot of grace. Sorry we’re in this situation together with our H. And thank you for your comments on my feed as well!
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