There will be times when you will see a bit of normal/clarity w/your h. Then there will be other times that he is off in wild blue yonder.
Maybe the reason that he has not brought up a D recently is because you aren't pressuring him for answers to questions that he really doesn't have an answer to right now. Generally, they rant and rave about a divorce when they feel pressures to straighten up and act like their old selves.
I would suggest that you take a moment and just breathe! He's still there and he did speak to the landlord about it. BTW, the landlord may have already opted not to raise the rent because of the current health crisis and not because your h spilled his guts to him about the situation going on between the two of you.
Sit quietly, the answers will come when you least expect them. The more you try to figure him out, the more frustrated and anxious you will become. Take it one day at a time because the past is gone, today is a present/gift and tomorrow needs to be allowed to reveal itself in due time.
Stay safe and continue as you have been.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
