Thank you both peace and Job, I’m so glad to have found this site and feel like I’m in a much much better detached headspace than only months ago. It now is just a matter of trying to navigate these stuck in isolation waters with H.
He’s out in the garage today “packing” ...I am doing a very good job of avoiding him and staying silent right now but how do I respond/react when I eventually have to go out into the garage and see everything in boxes? I have no idea what he’s packing up or where the heck he’s taking it for that matter. Do I acknowledge or just ignore what’s happening under my nose? Do I ask any questions or leave him be to carry on as he wishes right now (unless he’s putting me at risk for this virus- so far that’s the only time I spoke up)
Peace....I am in a much clearer space now where I can see that the calm & peace will come immediately once he moves out. That is miles from where I was even a month ago, when the thought of it would make me cry uncontrollably.
