Rosy, I share your frustration and your feelings about wanting H out completely. What stops me from taking action/voicing it is I think about how different my life would be when it happens. For me, not that different...I think I’ve detached enough where his words and actions don’t really bother that much anymore. Yes, out of sight out of mind would definitely be easier, but that also might give you a facade of thinking that you are really detached. Use this opportunity of quarantine to practice patience and detachment!