So, after all that and one virus later... my H is living back in the house... but downstairs which is fine. We’ve had lots of ups and downs. I need to try different things... stop focusing on the relationship and thinking somehow I’ll fix it. The advice is, not to bring up issues... not react? Let him bring it up?
How is he treating you? I think the friendly roommate analogy applies to this scenario....continue to work on yourself and let him talk when he’s ready. At the same time don’t be a doormat if he’s showing you disrespect.
