Well, I think I am done with trying. She just had a melt down with me explaining how all her problems are due to me trying circumvent her career. I opened a letter today to a client after I spilled coffee on it. It was the kind with perforations on the sides, so I ripped it open to keep it from ruining it and sticking together.. It was a pin number. Then, I did the 2018 taxes correctly, Married Jointly. That ruined her chances of getting a mortgage. Then, I wrote a check that same year to start the payment process to the IRS. It was her checks, same address, didnt even pay attention to it. It bounced. So, what it comes down to is she hasnt forgotten the past and wont let it go. I am done with it.