I’ve very quickly gone from H asking if I’d like food he’s made or wine yesterday to him irresponsibly leaving the house to get “packing supplies” today. I kindly asked him not to subject himself - and therefore me - to unnecessary risk to this virus by going out to stores which aren’t necessary right now. (Esp since I am in a very high risk bracket with this thing and a pre-exsisting condition ) His response was that he is bored and needs to start packing stuff up, and he’s tired of watching movies etc....I responded with there’s no telling how long this will go on for and everyone is in the same boat, perhaps read a book or walk or bike ride. I followed up with I’m not telling you what to do but would appreciate the consideration of being responsible during this time and avoiding unnecessary risk. He came back inside, told me he ordered stuff online - to which I’m responded thank you that was a better decision- only to turn around an hour later and go to the store to get storage bins!!!!!! Is this seriously part of the confusion. He’s been outside for hours and it sounds like he’s literally taking apart the garage. What is he packing? And where is it going??? And do I care??
Do I say anything, do anything or just continue to ignore and act “as if”???
I feel like I’m right back to month #2 with him on a mission to go -only work got in his way for 5 months I guess. Now with everything shut down he’s bored, stir-crazy and prob fighting demons that are staring him in the face and NEEDS to go again. But to start packing stuff up with no separation agreement or anything moving further along with lawyers....what the heck is he thinking (rhetorical question - I know he’s not!). What’s a LBS girl to do??
