Thank you Laurie, I'm still processing your email and will respond a little later. You're my angel and know when I need you.

H called this morning about 7ish asked if I had dropped S off at daycare yet. I said no we're still here, I'm trying to get him to get dressed. H asked what I did with S last night? I said "I was with him" why? H didn't say a word about where he was. Said to S in bright cheery voice "How you are today?" "Are you happy?" and then said "it's bright sun shiney day!" this coming from my H! I then asked H if he would be able to pick S up after work as I had an appointment...dead silence...then "what you didn't know about this appointment before now?" (this is the man who didn't come home last night or call. The guy is clueless and is in his own world, it doesn't bother me, just amazes me) I told him it was an appointment to get my hair cut and that I had meant to call him yesterday, but had gotten busy at work and that was all I said. More silence and then "I can pick him up" and I then said I really have to go, have to get S ready we're running late. H said bye and that was the end of the convo.

Why was he so freak'n happy anyway? This must be what Sting talks about when says he'll be "higher than a kite one minute" He was his normal/abnormal self when I talked to him. Does he think he's fooling me? Does he really think I'm that stupid, that I don't see past his words, his actions that don't match his words?

Cathy