Quote: I don't feel sorry for OW at all. She's in her sitch and it's her own making. I do pray for her and hope she can come through a better person. I know it can be done as I did it, came to believe in the wonderful, loving person that I am, was all along, just lost myself along the way. That no matter what I will be okay.
It's hard isn't it. I find that I will fell sorry for OW when she is standing where I am now. I'm glad I have the knowledge to understand that my H is not his normal self. She on the otherhand sees what she wants. I'm so glad I'm NOT her. To live with the knowledge that she was a part of spliting up a family. Maybe she justifies it by thinking she is making him happy. She wants him ALL to herself, maybe right now it's working. But I've known my H for 26+ yrs; his family is important. I'm not talking about us only, he doesn't see much of his dad either. MLC explains it all!
