So, you’re not divorced? Papers aren’t all in order?
Sounds like some monkey business is happening on H’s side.
Best to check in with your lawyer and see what’s really going on.
I may be wrong here, so consider your situation since you are the one who knows it best.
MLCers are master manipulators. They are super pleasant when they want something or things are going their way. And when caught red handed or held accountable they can get downright mean.
A week ago H was leaving. Flying to another country - right until the flights were cancelled.
And now he is all smooth and helpful. Pushing just the right buttons, doing laundry, helping, being daddy, seemly working towards a common goal. The problem is, his goals change rather quickly.
MLCers do have starts and stops. They peek out for a bit, then get spooked and run again.
There are two sides to this MLC stuff. This one, the confusion and emotional ping pong behaviour from H. And the business side, the assurance of financial protection and security for you and D3. Each requires detachment and an indifferent approach.
Focus on you and D3, and consider your future security and risks.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
