Whats New Today?

[CanBird]

~j~ ***Back story needed..Re D agreement. Perhaps unconventional, but its what we did. We both sought council & then agreed to work things out together. ***:

Just before midnight, 00 shares this regarding the signing of our D papers..."So...there's something I didnt sign or date...they say it needs a notary...they were suppose to take care of everything then. I'm NOT going down there". (me: ...your L ?) "Yeah..It's like It never happened". WHAT?

I know I heard what I heard. He wasnt angry, it was like, ....yeah..so you know that thing we did last week? It Didn't really happen. Weird right? That kind of attitude. For someone that was in such a rush a week ago, what happened? I'm not saying a thing.

So after that 00 brings up D3 bday...its not for months, but we've always celebrated before he goes to work. He's got ideas, plans.this..that..*he'd had 2 glasses of wine too..or more*. This is normal behavior. Just unexpected that he was so chatty & wanting to share. Wine does that sometimes..lol

Earlier....
GAL time, alone, which was nice. D3 got some Dad time. It's been an interesting day. 00 has been buzzing around us, not hiding out so much today. And if in the man cave, the back doors been wide open. I think, just like me, he needs to be around another person right now. Comfort. Scary times.

Much earlier...He had to go out, and picked us up a few things. I'm sticking to roommate treatment. It helps/works. He reaches out more, wants to talk more. I keep it short, polite. I actually talked about my rude shortness the previous night. I didnt say sorry. He said, "who isnt feeling that way..I get it." He finished my laundry for me, even brought it in. Finished up something I was preping in the kitchen... I said a small thanks. Phone calls I had inquiered about, he made. He's listening? What? Are we workjng together on a common goal? This sitch is so backwards. So we work better together now? WHAT?

Guess under these lockdown circumstances, things really are getting interesting. D3 & my well being are my main concern. (Of course I care that 00 is okay too). Now I'm in huge survival mode. I set goals. I make lists. I get things done. And I Do It. D3 & I. Sure 00 & I are working together on common survival goals, and that's normal. And right now our normal is doing our own things.

Tomorrow is another day. And before we know it, another month will begin.