1st Anniversary of Limbo, Indecisive WAH (part 2)

[Pommy99]

Ok I get it, I just need to rise above his insensitive or selfish behaviours, and act firm but more calm.

I’m really struggling now with choosing between being supportive and allowing him to come to the house and use what he needs to use given the lockdown, to make his day a bit more bearable; or making him live with the choice he made, alone in a house, which is pretty miserable (we are only allowed to go to each other’s houses because of the children. No other social contact is allowed, so he has no-one except us).

Of course I want him here for the wrong reasons, because I want him back in the family. But it just fills me with anxiety that he’s just “using” me/the house as he has no other choices right now.