Many Mlcers do eventually disappear I think at the start they are patient and available to the kids especially once BD
but then, well I think they get hung up in their new life..and at the same time they are trying to run from the pain
they still feel and caused and the Crises pulls them out away from everyone
Us kids their family friends The kids also remind them of a responsibility they no longer want
usually I think they want to start the fantasy life and he cant..
I would be mad also,, Its hard to live with and pretend all is ok when he has torn the family apart ect
take care of you..ask for help if you want then go about your day eventually he will leave but with all thats happening now..who knows when
you may have to dig for patience and take some extra self care time and a few minutes here and there, you can ask for his help with D so you can take care of you
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
