Oh I know it didn't just happen...it's a convenient excuse. My H was intent on leaving, even told me this himself, so to say it "just happened" is to take no responsibility for a poor choice that will haunt him and OW for the rest of there lives.
I don't feel sorry for OW at all. She's in her sitch and it's her own making. I do pray for her and hope she can come through a better person. I know it can be done as I did it, came to believe in the wonderful, loving person that I am, was all along, just lost myself along the way. That no matter what I will be okay. More importantly without the Lord I honestly don't know where I would be today. The mushroom story I found in the bible.
