Definitely some strong deviations from *some* advice given here, and more in line with what I had been thinking before, and from the DR book.
Definitely follow the coaches advise. You were able to have a real conversation. I like to get as many options as possible when making my decisions. I then use logic to pick the one that logically seams right for me.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712